It's cold and it's confinement here in Paris. About an hour earlier the sun was blasting through my 3rd floor flat and I bathed in a memory summertime in Brittany on the Terrace. Instead of the people bundled high in their belongings they were in bouquets and ready to celebrate something. I blinked and just like that, the clouds shewed away the remaining glow. The pigeons didn't even stick around...the last two cracking on a walnut casing at the Primer downstairs.
It's back as I would have imagined a November fall day to be while stuck indoors.
Honestly I shouldn't say it like that. Even before confinement I worked from home. Just at the moment you actually do want to go to the 14th arrondissement, you can't. And most of the time, I never have a yearning to take a voyage to the 14th, so far away from me.
I will say that my tribes have been helping to keep me sane. These are small groups of people who support me and what I do. Well, if you ask them that, they may not understand it in the same way. They are the people in my world or who I choose to be in my world, who have similar goals and objectives as me; same energy level or positivity; or who are great at giving me honest and authentic feedback. I love them. Some I know really well like for 5 years, others I see randomly online every couple of months and none of them are family.
As I work on my business, I find I'm not alone and it's easy to be "not-perfect" with them. Phew! Being honest in the vulnerability takes practice lol. So who's in these groups and how did I organize them? The deal is that everything is free, always organized and random.
There are tons of events online to connect with people these days but I find I am still quite a solo person and I like working alone, one on one or in very small groups. In case, the choices above are not available to you, check out these ideas DIY and quite formal:
Random Virtual Happy Hours: DIY it with a group of very random people in your life and invite them to a Google hangout, Jitsi or Facebook video chat. It doesn't have to be formal with a zoom account either. These are people you met one time and always said, sure one day we'll do something....but never did. They are mostly strangers, perhaps you will make it a theme under creativity or travel. See what happens!
Focusmate is an online accountability session with an actual person over video for 50 min. Of course you pay for this so try apps to help with your productivity like Social Pomodoro. Work for short 25 min sessions with no distractions thanks so some handy tech.
I will try Cave Day just to have something different to do today for an hour. Though its paid, sometimes they sponsor these free sessions called: Get Sh*t Done in The Cave: Deep Work Remote Session. They talk about “flow,” the science of productivity, and all of the distractions that get in the way. They do a deep work sprint, where they claim you "get more done in 20 minutes than you have in most entire mornings." I'll let you know how it goes.
If there are DIY methods you've learned and would like to share, let us know!